Be True Be You

All too often we find ourselves trying or attempting to be something we are not. The best thing you can do for yourself is to be true to yourself. You may find it difficult to be true to others, however, if you don't do anything else, be sure to always be true to you. If we can't be true to ourselves, we can't be true to other people. Anything that you have to fabricate about yourself to someone else, that shows that you aren't comfortable being who you're portraying to be. No one else's happiness matters than your very own. For some people, happiness isn't something they experience all the time but in seasons. I like to believe that during these season's, their is a possibility that a person may have difficulty experiencing happiness or being themselves. The best thing to do during these seasons are things that involve feeling good about yourself. Perhaps you may want to get a new haircut, rearrange your bedroom with some decorations, declutter your belongings, journal, meditate, and listen to music. Doing activities will help to distract you while feeding your spirit in a positive way. Sometimes we have too many distractions around us that may be keeping us from being true to who we are. While we are still young and growing, we are still finding our way in finding ourselves. Being that this is the case, it's important we surround ourselves with people who won't try to alter who we are. Sure change is good, but you have to want it for yourself and not because someone else suggest it. Too many distractions will cloud your judgement of yourself. We don't realize just how much we are influenced by those we may have around us; from the way we talk, to the way we dress, and communicate, we are either negatively or positively impacted by our surroundings. You may not be able to control these influences, but you definitely are able to control how you respond to these influences and deciding whether or not you will be true to you, or to be true to someone else?