The Power to Blossom

In perfect timing of the season changing, spring is a daily reminder that change can be beautiful. Sometimes one can become complacent being the way that they are due to it being comfortable. As the author of this blog, I stress the importance of how change helps shape our character and define who and what we are. In the previous posts, I discuss how our fear can limit us if we are afraid to change our ways of living or thinking. However, when it comes to change, we must coin the daily reminder that we shouldn't consume ourselves with things we cannot control or change. Overthinking is what also can limit one from being their best self. The art of overthinking creates anxiety and causes one to doubt their actual ability to change or correct their behavior. The more we think about how others will view us, or the perspective of others once they see we have changed, we will begin to correct our behaviors to how that person wants us to be rather than who we want to actually be. We possess the power to be our best self and must remember this when going on with our daily lives. Specifically, women need to know the power we all possess to blossom into the individuals we are destined to be. With March being Woman's History Month and the spring season commencing, the significance of our power needs to be exerted on us by what we allow ourselves to consume. Women, we must support and uplift one another. True queens help fix other queens crowns.

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Springtime should be the push to take the initiative to change. April 1st-May 31st Join me in changing things about yourself that you may feel you dislike about yourself. Have no worry you will not be alone in this journey. I will be joining you each week on Sunday to talk about what you have worked on for the week and on Monday to talk about what you intend to improve about yourself for the approaching week. Whether it is health habits, communication improvements, or lifestyle changes etc.. It all counts as change. Let's be of support to one another while we blossom as beautifully as spring.

Be Your Truth

If there is anything worse than being something you’re not, it’s the ability for people to know when you’re being something that you’re not. The most difficult thing to do is tell the truth because some people don’t know exactly how to do that. The truth forces people to deal with things that they may not ever have the courage to deal with. The most important thing to do in life is to be yourself and always tell your truth. Never try to go on with your life trying to prove yourself to anyone. We do not owe anything to anyone in life but to ourselves. The more we try to prove ourselves to people, the more we taint our ability to carry out our purpose. By focusing on proving ourselves to people, we take the attention off our ability to be our best selves. As human beings, we are our own worse critics and although out truth may hurt, we at least are able to grow from situations we experience in life and become a better person. The worse thing a person can do is not learn how to tell their own truth. By being truthful, we give people the opportunity to at least know things about us and formulate their own opinion. No matter what that person chooses to believe about you, you’ve done your job that most people never learn to do and that is; be your truth.