Love is…… a product of our very own upbringing. It is the result of the relationships we attract during our very own existence. In fact, it is the way we are loved that teaches us how to love. Love is…..leaving your rough draft in the past and revising your draft daily no matter how many times or how long it takes to get the perfect final draft. We only can love based on experience. So like everything in life, there are good and bad things when it comes to love. Imagine what life must be like when your heart grows fond of a person. Notice how I said, “a person” and not “your person.” Sometimes it is the worldly possessions of the ideals of love that make us feel we own a person when really Love is…the experience with a person. We can’t possess people but we can hold onto the memories we create. At least once in life, we will all end up loving the wrong person the right way. In fact, if it wasn’t for the good or bad experiences of love we wouldn’t know how and what our heart truly desires. It’s almost like you get so encrypted in this person's existence you begin to put their needs and wants above yours. Your self-love begins to lack and we all know self-love is the best love. Love is…….individuality with the expectation that your happiness is important whether you’re in a relationship or not. Love is….having to not decide because there is no such thing as making a decision when you’re the only option. If you could love the wrong person the right way just imagine the love you would give the right person. Love is like the ocean; some days are rough, some days are angry, some days are gentle and smooth. Similar to the waves in the ocean, we must choose to weather the storm or jump ship. Love is….. always changing, always different, yet always constantly in motion. Love isn’t….. smooth sailing all the time; it’s in those rough seas that allow us to see who we truly are and just how strong we are. Love is who I once recognized but also not knowing who'd I become. Love is embracing the attraction of where I was in order to reach the places I haven’t even seen. As we begin to know something or someone can we truly begin to love it; To know me is to love me.
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